Sorry, Not Possible Anymore

Despite of all my efforts to not to put my problems before others and instead putting efforts to make other feel more confortable talking me and getting relaxed saying there own problem, I am back were i started. My friend complaining I am changed, I am not able to look in the problem as efficiently as before and worse that after talking me they are still more disserted! something which I heard in my UG days and I left that selfish person....It looks the time has come again. Sorry that I can't carry on my spirit anymore.