Saturday, March 18, 2006

Self Control or Self Denial


There are several things in this world that are having very small margin between them, out of which few are illusion of eyes while some are illusion of mind, some are notoriously know to all while some are little known. Like people often talk of love and infatuation, worldliness and materialism. The great things about we Indians is that if you give a chance to speak upon such topics a person who is definitely unaware of what to talk about will talk most and will show his most confidence over his view.
But let us come to the point out of one such issue that isn’t it common that on the name of self control most of time the time we are prohibitedly indulge in the practice of self-denial. We are all time careful about having the self control and can’t be said that it’s a vague habit because that is really something which we often come to learn about when we come across the thing several time in life and there is chance of excess. As also told by Kabir Das ji:
Ati ka bhala na bolana, ati ki bhali na choop/
Ati ka bhala na barasana, ati ki bhali na dhoop//
Also there are chances that we don’t have the chances to learn upon as there is no chance to retake. But even after that because of such possibilities we can’t let all the time having so called control over self to deny our desire at some very critical occasion. There is a truth that, one gets life once! and we can’t loose the chance to get his part of happiness in his style all the time. We all are living in the age when everyone has a great pressure of performance and that is the cause of success too but on the other hand we are having it all on the cost of some great sacrifice of our regular happiness and thus we all need a boost to our poignant mind. So definitely the new generation motto is, Work hard, Party harder!

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